Monday, January 10, 2011

Life with 3 daughters, a husband and a house!

So this is my first blog ever and I'm really excited and hopefully it sticks! With the crazy life that i have it seems like I start things and are never able to complete them. I don't know if i could necessarily blame that on having 3 lil kids but I guess its just easier lol. So i try to be crafty and creative but for some reason my mind wanders when i try to concentrate and nothing ever seems to be good enough. I keep telling my self that when my 2 youngest are older (they are 1 and 3 now) I will be able to do more craft things that i enjoy but who knows if that will be reality? I see moms that have 3 and 4 kids and still manage to do things that they enjoy and i ask myself...What am i doing wrong? Well I'm not certain if i can answer that. I try to put my kids on a schedule but then it always seems to get messed up some how. I feel like a lazy mom a lot of the time as i write my lists for what needs to be done knowing most of it wont get done at all. People tell me that its ok to not be perfect and that its ok if things don't always get done but all that matters is spending time with your kids. Well i try that and i get frustrated cuz something is messy and i cant concentrate on my kids when the dishes are filling the sink or the laundry pile is staring me down saying WASH ME!!!! Well this is my resolution for 2011, Take the time to do it all! I know that if i put my mind to it that i can do it ALL! I want to be that mom that spends time with her kids and gets the chores done on time but also makes time for herself to do the things she enjoys doing! So if nothing else this blog will be my way to vent when I'm frustrated cuz the kids are screaming and there are toys everywhere and hubs is saying "I'm hungry!" So if nobody sees this its ok because its my personal therapist and if you are in the same position I'm in then maybe it will help a mother out there that thinks she is alone in being overwhelmed by being a mom, wife and woman all at the same time! So if you see this thanks for reading and know that life goes on and its ok if the house is dirty as long as you are happy, the family will be happy too! Thanks!!!

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